Only words.

bald man
hairy man
loud man
bipolar man
gay man
anything man
white man
 
who cares?
 
I am only hurt by any of those words if I LET them hurt me. you can use them any way you want. The way in which you use them or interpret them says a lot more about you than I. Besides, I’m the only one who can give any of those words any real power, so what the hell is all the fuss?